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So very true, experience both and difference is huge ❤

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That is what I believe as well, you just know it has no explanation.

You know the relationship could possibly need to end when he limits how deep the conversation gets. It becomes a privilege to be privy to his thoughts. He only wants to benefit sexually from you or keep conversation light.

Im open minded when im in a trusting relationship. But i won't put a man over my salvation or my faith. ❤❤🙏🙏

If their Not emotionally invested I dont see it as a Relationship.

Very understandable! 👌🏾😀💛💛💛🙏🏽🙌🏾

Facts!

Right ... Cuz we all know he at least knows how to "ACT" like he got sense

Why do i keep getting these Who cares..... You said it RIGHT The problem is ... Im spending time with other people and making connections. Thats when the red flag brigade began And um I think its sneaky as f.. to spy on somebody

That's a shame. SMH Why won't men just do right from the beginning? You said they're going to try to see what they can "get away with"

I love emotional investment. I will love for it to flow so seemingly. Thank you sir. Keep ministering. We are loving it 🙏💙🥰.

Labossiere. Thank you so much for pouring into us all off this good advice. You are so much full of knowledge and wisdom that we can hold on for life. I'm noticing if you cant do anything else, you know you can deliver a message on time and we need, enjoyed and appreciated it. Keep on ministering and loving God's people. Your future is so promising. Thank you sir! Keep going💛🙏💪🙌

HMMMMM... THAT'S A DIFFERENT WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS!😮

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So true. I have tried telling him in a nice calm manner and so he wasn’t making the effort so after a few months I said goodbye. 😢Now he dosen’t know why I broke up with him and why he dosen’t think that he put me on a pedestal? I know my self worth and what I truly desire which are free things that should come naturally and easily. ❤

The answer is NO

I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ your amazing ♥️♥️ coach ❤❤❤ Thank God 🙏🙏🙏 for you ❤❤❤

This, I believe is a very important conversation to have. Situationships and being afraid to ask questions. Knowing what it is and that you want more, but can't walk away.

I’m 30, no kids, never engaged / married. I’ve spent the last 5 years working on myself, the gym and my career (Covid was a pain though) and became a baptised Christian… I REFUSE to date a women under 30… I want a mature, beautiful, driven Christian women who’s got enough life experience as me to understand what really matters… what value really is… and start a family…. That is the women I will risk all of my hard work for. Not some under 30 women

Yes yes yes

Love this ❤❤❤🎉🎉

You have helped me more than you will ever know GOD IS GOOD. .. AMEN..

Men should make more videos about why men do these things and operate in this fashion and then correct it…way too much explaining and justifying dog ass behavior and shallow thinking…if he operates this way then he isn’t the one lmao ❤

There are good men and women in the world I think if everyone worked on themselves this world would be such a different place it all starts with self-love ❤

You’re the best Stephan. Thank you for being so genuine & authentic ♥️ this video came right on time. Thank you for your content.

Teach!! The cool part is I’m taking it slow enough I’m single and open to possibilities .. I think that by remaining celibate I’m safer from The Common pitfalls women usually experience so… Is that even a factor in my case??

Love this ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

If women are the only ones raising the children why does it have a negative impact on a child’s life when the father isn’t present? Clearly men have a bigger role on raising kids than you are willing to admit.

What if yall just best friends and that’s all the purpose is but the chemistry is amazing ?

I need your advice. one on one. I trust your opinion. Please let me know what I need to contact you or you contact me. I am very serious. I am in the process of a divorce after 38 years. Thank you for your time. I truly hope that I hear from you soon.

Also, you mentioned right man wrong time in another video and I’d love a video dedicated to evaluating those situations and how to tell the man why and that you hope it could be revisited and what would be necessary for that to happen. I ran in to this situation and while I think they were open to it and would have abridged, they were hurt and focused on what they perceived only as a rejection and lost cause because they assumed I would be unavailable for them to return to. I want to know how to let a man know how much you really want them to try without also not being entitled and main thing dignity and respect and not making it a commitment in case life ends up blocking the opportunity. Will any men react positively in this situation. Same thing with a break….when you want to take a positive break to just work toward shared goals that will create the right foundation for that relationship to restart on better footing (like within a few months to a year….times when it’s actually achievable). I’ve had that situation too and they just thought I was trying to break up in a fake way and didn’t actually intend to restart the relationship. So frustrating. They usually tell me I am too good looking and they know I won’t stay single despite telling them I have no plans to date in the interim. I have unique tastes in terms of what I find attractive so I don’t date men that would otherwise be seen as attractive and find that my partners can’t understand why I am with them and it creates issues despite lots of reassurance. Will having a discrepancy like that between a man and a woman always be a problem for the man and the relationships will never be secure?

I would love love love it if you did a “before you date 101” and lay out a structured process of how to know you’re ready to date like personal issues or life circumstances that should be resolved first/personal development, etc and what things to do and know before you start…for instance getting figuring out all of your boundaries, goals, standards, preferences, having a plan for how long you’ll date someone and how to evaluate them, etc. as well as a video about recommended activities, tests and questions to put a prospective partner through before letting your heart completely invest in one person. Another video about exactly how to say and deliver certain common messages to men that are often needed when dating like when you like a man, but you have to tell him that there is a certain standard he isn’t meeting, but you want to maintain femininity and a positive hopeful vibe in a way that inspires him to want to meet it and not that makes him feel devalued and want to give up. This is my biggest problem in dating is how to maintain the balance of asking for what I want and need, but not turning off men because they feel I’m entitled, unnaccepting or can’t be pleased or that they just let their own ego/self esteem tank the situation. I think there are a lot of good men out there that lack experience and expect to be turned down and they give up easily so it’s helpful to learn how to use femininity in a way that inspires men to step up and not give up. Also, I’d love to see a video on how to know when it’s ok to ask them to change something vs when doing so is considered controlling or trying to change who they are. I’m very confused about where the line is because I’ve had relationships ruined both ways….not asking and instead ending the relationship only to find out later that they wanted to know and would have changed what I wanted if I had just asked but I didn’t want to offend or hurt them. Then the ones that I asked but would react negatively and push back and feel like I wanted to control their life. One mine might willingly learn to dress more appropriately for a date vs another might get very offended by telling them how to dress. It’s exhausting and I know I’m a high value woman and I don’t want to settle but it’s also unrealistic to find a good man who is already everything you want and there is some degree of wiggle room on asking for preferences in a relationship I just can’t seem to figure out how to do that right. Help please lol

Say lt Minister Stephon 👍

Western women need to follow the example of Japanese women and deny men all the benefits, no s.x, no playing house and no kids until marriage. We need a global reset!

Are women being created in a factory now cuz it seems they have no common sense or morality and act blind deaf and dumb to reality

Well i should certainly hope not, but in any case....where was i at 4am? And secondly, i missed my bubble this morning. Happy #blessed #Wednesday ya'll 🤪👅😁

I wasn't expecting anything, I'm grossly understanding myself.